I watched the story unfold in real time. I heard of Jian Ghomeshi's leave of absence on Friday, then Sunday that the CBC had cut ties with Ghomeshi, which was a considerable surprise. Then I read Ghomeshi's Facebook post. Then Twitter. Then the comments. (Yes, I read the comments. Probably a bad idea). Then the Star Article. And Twitter again. Yesterday and today I've been following closely how the mainstream media has been reporting the story.
There is a lot of confusion related to this thing. As Erin said yesterday, we are not privy to the discussions that have gone on behind closed doors. There is little that is definite, much that is said, more that is unsaid. Voices have been heard, helped by high-stakes media management companies or filtered through the writings of independent male journalists. One voice has laid out the terms of the debate, and another has responded.
One thing is clear: We still don't know the whole story. We have yet to hear the unfiltered voices of those barred from doing so because of lawsuits alleging wrong-doings, or from those too afraid to speak out in public.
Reading comments like this one, I fear that we may never:
I hope for the unfolding of both sides of the story. For voices that refuse to be silenced by fear of reprisal or backlash, or because the public has already told them how they should feel about what happened. For the truth to come out. For the public to make judgements based on determined facts, not because they take one person's defence at face value or because they really liked 'Q.' We know that only 10% of all sexual assaults are reported to police. That advocates of BDSM have come out questioning Ghomeshi's claims. And it is important to note that in Canada, you can't consent to bodily harm. There is clearly more to this than what has currently come to light.
Like Erin, I want to keep the dial tuned to questions of power, issues of misogyny, and rape culture. Let's continue the conversation.