My daughter's teacher sent home a note indicating that Munchkin is "significantly behind in what concerns the homework assignments." Oh great. That's on me, because the homework needs to be explained and supervised and I'm the French speaker at home.
My husband fell down the porch stairs in the rain, while putting up Halloween decorations.
My class got shifted to another room for a special event, and when I put the poster on the door, I listed the wrong room number.
The indignities and injuries are piling up at the same time as the grading and the writing deadlines and SSHRC adjudication season for me. I'm grumpy. But this:
I went to yoga last night, and as we moved into a tricky and extended balance sequence, my teacher instructed us to hold our hands in this tented-fingers position. It was, she told us, so that we could hold our sense of humour, keep it close.
So there we were, on one leg, tipping forward and kicking back and rolling up into some awkward and unstable sort of floating half moon pose, trying to keep this soft tent of fingers together, gently cradling our sense of humour, delicately, in the midst of difficulty and effort and sometimes falling over.
It's hard to keep your hands like this when you are getting a foot cramp on your standing leg and your thigh is burning and your balance is super off and you're about to fall over. The tendency is to let the arms flail out for balance, or, conversely, to jam the hands together, in a hard clench. It takes real skill to go through the hard stuff and keep your fingertips softly touching, but if you can do it, your jaw unclenches. You relax a little. You remember to laugh when you fall.
At the point in the term, then end of Week 9 for me, with 40 new papers to grade every week, and a final to plan, and two more online quizzes to create, and managing the graduate program and adjudicating the SSHRC apps, and trying to not get any more notes home from grade three, well, it's hard to not clench. It's hard to hold onto my sense of humour, gently.
I'm trying colourful pens, mint tea, shared videos of adorable animals on Facebook, early bedtimes, and some self-compassion.
How are you managing to 'keep your fingers tented' at this tricky balance point in the term?